Barometer

The Relationship Barometer

Read the pressure before the storm.

The Relationship Barometer is a light weekly check-in for the relationships that matter. It catches strain early and turns it into a conversation, not a crisis.

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The problem

Relationships rarely break in one moment. They erode through patterns we don't see in ourselves: one person pulls away, the other pushes harder, and the cycle builds. Most tools show up after the damage. Barometer shows up before.

How it works

Four steps to a steady forecast.

  1. 01

    Start together

    Both people opt in around a shared goal.

  2. 02

    Know your roots

    A short intake on how you each learned to handle conflict growing up, your communication style, and a basic personality read.

  3. 03

    Add an outside view

    Invite three people who know you well to answer a few private questions. They never see results.

  4. 04

    Keep the agreement

    Pick your rhythm (usually weekly). Five quick check-in points, one shared readout, and a gentle next step.

Two signals that make it work

Capacity

“My cup is low this week. It's not you.”

Pattern flag

“This keeps happening and I want you to know. I'm not keeping score and I'm not leaving.”

Repair tools

The next small move.

When the pressure drops, Barometer gives you the next small move: start gently, name what you appreciate, own your part, or take a real pause with a promise to come back. The structured pause gives one person space and the other a time to reconnect.

Start gentlyName what you appreciateOwn your partTake a real pause

Tracks

Which relationship are you tending?

The Pressure Check

Two minutes. No login.

Think about one relationship that matters to you and the last two weeks.

Who is it about?

Clinically guided

Built with input from a psychiatrist with 30 years of practice, and designed around well-established research on how relationships strain and repair.

Founding pilot

Join the waitlist.

We're starting small. Tell us a little about you.

Track
Would you do this with someone?

Questions

Is this therapy?

No. Barometer is a relationship maintenance tool, not therapy or medical care. If you are in crisis, call or text 988.

Does my partner see everything I say?

No. You choose what to share; private flags stay private until you share them.

Who sees my outside-view answers?

Answers are pooled and anonymous; the people you invite never see your results.

When does it launch?

We're opening a small founding pilot first. Join the waitlist to be considered.